Wednesday, 27 February 2013

'O' - sweet child of mine!





So, I think it’s only right that I introduce you to the leading lady in my life, my gorgeous, not-so-little ‘O’.

5 ½ going on 15.

We have the talking back, the attitude, the boyfriends (all 5 of them, one for each year of her life thus far?)…but on the flip side, we have the confident, creative, intelligent little girl, who has made her mummy so very proud.

She is one of the youngest in her year group but this has never had any effect on her learning, even when she started at school at 3 years & 4 months, in Nursery. She is particularly good at reading and the knowledge of this love of literature makes my heart almost beat out of its chest! I have lovingly kept all my Famous Five books in the hope that she gains as much pleasure and escape reading them, as I did.

Now The Eel and I have established our very separate lives, I am glad O seems to have inherited the best of both of us, even if she does look like her Daddy more. *sad face*
She is creative and studious like me but has her Dad’s confidence and self belief, something I have always lacked, but I found solace in pretending to be someone I wasn’t – performing set this shy little bird free and shall again! (Future Blog alert)

Being 5 these days is a lot different to how I remember things. For me, it was all about dance classes, dirty knees and jelly and ice cream. Part dance/drama diva, part tomboy, I loved the thrill of dance festivals and the smell of the greasepaint but equally felt at home with the boys, climbing trees and doing skids on bikes.
For O, it is about Musical Theatre class, Rainbow Guides, discos, lip gloss, nail varnish, hair styles and gadgets. I’m sure they grow up faster these days, especially now in this technical age, where they can find their way round your mobile phone, steal your DS and load films onto your Netbook with such ease.

We have a testing relationship, already there is a hell of a lot of estrogen in this household and to be honest, I fear for the sanity and the safety of our ageing cat at times. But that said, we are close and seem to become more so every day.

Over the past 6 months we have bonded over a mutual love of musical theatre. We do an amazing abridged version of “The Wizard of Oz”, where basically I play every character except for Dorothy…the flying monkeys, the Munchkins…TOTO, there really is no end to my versatility. ;-) Anyway, I digress.

O can sit in the bath and simultaneously play Mickey, Eddie and The Narrator from “Blood Brothers”, although it has to be said, she already favours the part of the Narrator, just like Mummy. No doubt she will inherit the burning desire to play the part (it’s on The List – I may bore you with my list in future). Why let being a woman stop you?!

She has an astounding knowledge of “The Witches of Eastwick”, informing me just when in the music the witches fly out over the audience - the part where mummy cried tears of joy in the Theatre Royal! There is something rather amusing about listening to her sing “Dance with the Devil”.

And as for her rendition of “Castle on a Cloud from “Les Miserables”, I defy anyone not to shed a tear when she plays Cosette in future. Which she will, obvs.

Pushy ‘Stage Mother’? Me? Ok, well maybe a little, but I only encourage her passions and talents. I want her confidence levels to soar, for her to see she can be whoever she wants to be and achieve her goals; there really is no limit – something I am reminding myself of as I begin to once again pursue my own dreams.

One day I know that with a little determination, we will both succeed and really make our mark on this world!

*jazz bloomin’ hands*





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