The Art of Sexting

I feel after the seriousness of the last two Blog posts, you may be on the verge of getting out your violins/slitting your wrists, so how’s about something light hearted?!

Those of you who know me will know I am an incorrigible flirt, not half as deadly as ten years ago, but I would like to think I have still got it in one way or another?!

But recently readers, I have been introduced to the art of ‘Sexting’. Who knew this could be so much fun?!

As a creative kinda girl I do love an outlet for my over-active imagination and this fitted the bill perfectly. Virtually, I could be whoever I wanted to be, wearing whatever I liked, whilst in reality be at home on the sofa in my dressing gown and glasses, watching BBC Dramas. Sexy.

I have not known TC long, having ‘met’ online through a dating site. Things started off innocently enough, but then messages turned, how shall we say, interesting.

Now sex has been somewhat missing from my life of late – we don’t really count the Psycho from the Summer who might as well have not even have been there for all the effort he put into proceedings! But this was a good alternative, THIS I found came quite naturally to me and was rather empowering.

Although I was careful not to let things go too far (if you are going to meet in future, could be quite embarrassing to think where those hands had been in a textual format?!), I actually found myself turned on by the smallest of gestures, opening my eyes to new possibilities.

To be honest it was exactly what I needed after things that have happened of late – a welcome distraction from a rather attractive man. It has made me think of myself as a sexual being again and allowed me to regain a little of the confidence I lost in the summer.

So guys the moral of the story is give things a try. Do not waste opportunities – you never know what is round the corner.

 *digs out phone*

 *smiles*